STEP 1

You better cook your ass off on November the 23rd. You know what day I am talking about. Call out of work, fake a sickness, I don't care, you are cooking a lovely dinner for your loved ones. (yes, that includes your husband, your inlaws, your kids and you) 

Step 1- buy all the stuff you need PRIOR to the big day. Meaning, that Wednesday, you have all the items needed to succeed thursday. 

Step 2- kids, husband, dogs, and whatever crazy pets you may have, leave with your in-laws or your parents. If mom is coming to help you, (because we know your dad aint coming to help out cooking) make sure YOU let her HELP you. That means letting the wise grandma share her wisdom on how to best cook that turkey we are all going to enjoy. 

Step 3- Whomever is coming to dine in on your dime and time, MAKE sure they bring the desserts, drinks and anything else you deem necessary. That takes it off your plate and you're only having to deal with the major event. PLUS, when everyone pitches in those individuals feel good about it. 

Step 4- Make sure to enjoy yourself. Laugh a little. Drink some wine. Take some strong CBD. Get your in-laws drunk, get your dad drunk, ask them funny questions about how they whipped your butt when you were little and show them the scars too! (just kidding but do enjoy yourself)